3 Qualities Every Side Piece Must Have and the 1 Thing you Must Remember
There are 3 qualities every side piece must have for a situationship to work and not end in heartbreak, resentment, and you losing everything.
First, you must remember not all men deserve relationship freedom.
Relationship Freedom is the flexibility to act on sexual and emotional connections with someone other than our partner. Simply put, you make the choice of the type of connection you have with people outside of your relationship.
So is it true, ALL Men deserve relationship freedom. Absolutely Not! The truth is most men don't. Relationship freedom is dependent on providing physical, emotional, and financial security while providing for ALL of their partner's needs. Unfortunately some men think they deserve relationship freedom without also providing the securities required.
So what are the 3 qualities a side piece must have?
- She has to understand this is not forever - You ever see or hear of situations where a woman destroys a man's car or calls his wife to sabotage his relationship? It's because she feels lied to. She had an expectation of what the relationship would become. Whether right or wrong she blames him for the fairytale that will never be. Men, set up your expectations with her early. Establish the fact your time with her is for a season and not forever. Reinforce the concept, respectfully, with both actions and words. If you don't, there is no good ending and you will lose everything.
- Ability to not gossip - I can't stress enough how important it is for the good and the bad in the relationship to be between you and your side piece only. If she gossips to you, she will gossip about you. As a high value man you keep your personal life personal anyway, you can't afford increasing the chances your indiscretions coming to light. If you take the chance with a gossip girl, it wasn't bad luck that got you caught it was bad decisions.
- She understands her place in your life - When a side piece understands her priority level in your life, she will understand family responsibilities come before her, she'll accept that your time is not forever, and will have more realistic expectations of what she'll get out of this fling. She is and should still remain a priority in your life, but she is not the #1 priority. With that, still treat her with respect. She's a person and deserves to be valued.
Here's a perfect example of women talking about the importance of #3
A side piece must have ALL 3 qualities, it's not enough to have 1 or 2. When teaching my clients these non negotiables I commonly hear, a woman will never go for being a side piece.
That's fake news. A woman will never go for being treated less than how she feels she should be treated. You still must bring a lot to the table that she benefits from but you absolutely can have the best of both worlds.
The big mistake men make, is not using all of the resources available to them to hide their indiscretions. At LoveHerBetter we provide high value men the tools needed to have relationship freedom and not make common relationship mistakes. There is nothing more valuable than your peace of mind . Whether you need an alibi for your cheating indiscretions, to clean up your social media, or you've been caught and need ways to ensure to get out of it, our team will take care of the details so you can rest easy. We believe relationships last when both partners are happy and living their true selves. Men should provide security to women in all aspects of the relationship and still enjoy their freedom. LoverHerBetter, Do you respectfully.