5 Steps to Ensure the Perfect Trip With Your Side Piece

Every man's dream can turn to nightmares if he doesn't perfectly plan a trip with his side piece. It's natural to have excitement and focus on all the fun things that will happen but without the proper planning, the excitement won't last long. You've already overcome a hurdle and built the connection with your side piece and if you've been following me, you've followed my advice to let the side piece know you're in a relationship. Whether you're looking to get away from the stresses at home, or looking to maximize your relationship freedom, as a high value man you've determined you want some quality time with your side piece.

The first few trips with your side piece should be no more than 48 hours. After doing weekend getaways, you can build up to longer trips and go abroad. The reasons are obvious. For one, you're getting to know her and grabbing a drink with someone is a lot different than travelling with them. A shorter trip gives you the excitement of exploring a new city together without the pressures of maintaining sustained high energy or the risk of running out of things to talk about. The location is very important too. The flight for the first trip should be within 3 hours of where you live and be a city where you have enough activities to pivot quickly to second and third options based on your energy.

Men go wrong by missing key details in planning and execution. Most of the time is spent focusing on making sure the side piece is happy, including logistics (hotel/Airbnb, flight, and booking activities) instead of focusing on the details to ensure he will enjoy peace of mind while on the trip. Remember, just because it's a trip to relax and take your mind off of things doesn't mean you can forget details that are needed to protect your partner's heart. Most trips with side pieces will be filled with non stop drinks and fun leaving little time to focus on the details, you will fail if you do this on your own.

Through my years of helping men enjoy relationship freedom, there are 5 steps that men must do for the perfect vacation with their side piece.

1. Prepare for the quiz - Your partner will test you before you leave, during your trip and when you get back. You have to put in the time to ensure the details are planned out. If you say that you are going on a business trip and work in sales but you don't pack any suits, it raises an immediate red flag.
2. Set up expectations with your partner - If your wife is expecting you to be free at night to talk or facetime, but you're with your side piece at dinners or other events, your partner will continue to question you during your trip and stress you out. You have to align expectations to have piece of mind.
3. Schedule the messages and check ins - Being able to schedule messages on your phone is one of your key advantages. A cute goodnight txt or an early text saying you're thinking about her will go a long way to provide the piece of mind she needs.
4. Protect her heart - As a high value man, you have a responsibility to protect her heart before, during and after your trip. Your partner should feel that you will miss her before the trip (tell her verbally you will miss her), that you're thinking about her during the trip (send her messages or videos), and that you couldn't wait to see her when you got back in town (get her a gift to let her know she was on your mind).
5. Align expectations with your side piece - The #1 rule and one that men often over look is that you must tell your side piece that you're in a relationship. High value men often think it's easier not to share this or they don't make it clear enough that they are seeing someone which leads to mis-aligned expectations. If your side piece is expecting a long term relationship to come from this and you're not, it's only going to lead to a blow up in the future.

Each one of these steps has a another level. For example, to protect protect your partner's heart, you can't keep mementos from the trip, physical or even on your phone. At love her better we've helped numerous men enjoy trips with side pieces while protecting their partner's heart. We help men prepare for the quiz, because we know the questions she will ask and what will give her peace of mind. We'll help you have the conversations with your partner to set expectations to limit the amount of calls and txts that will interrupt your tip. We know the right messages to send, the cadence to send the messages and the follow ups needed to give you peace of mind. There's more that needs to go into the trip to protect your partner's heart than most can imagine, but the consequences of not putting in the work can be devastating. If you want to plan the perfect trip with your side piece you can do it on your own or you can Lover her Better. Do you, respectfully.