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5 Things Cheating Men Must do To Get Away Clean

There are 5 non negotiables High Value Men must do when cheating to get away clean. By clean I mean, not getting caught by their partner, having the least amount of people know about their indiscretions, and most importantly maintaining their peace of mind.

Missing any one of the 5 will lead to loneliness and your heart being broken.

I have a friend in his 50's with 3 children that did not follow the right steps. He thought he could cheat on his own. The last time he had a side piece was in his mid 30's very early on in his marriage. When he met his new mistress through friends of friends he thought if he was just careful he could be a loving father, good husband and still have his fun.

What he didn't realize is that times change, technology changes and there were factors he wasn't prepared for. His wife was able to access his Instagram profile using a single factor login through Facebook. Even though he tried to cover his tracks by using IG's DM vanish mode, his wife still saw everything. She confronted him, asking if there was someone else. He denied and held on to the lie. The kids were hurt the most in the divorce. He never ended up with his mistress and was forced to sell his 4 bedroom house to keep up with the child support and alimony payments.

There are obvious missed steps in his plans to cheat. Simple tactics he did not account for.

So what are the 5 Things You Must Do to Get Away Clean?

  1. Give your wife emotional security by over sharing - There's nothing more important and powerful than to ensure your partner is secure. When done correctly you will be able to have her around your phone, feel comfortable if she goes through your texts, and not worry she will find your indiscretions. It sounds counter intuitive, but the more you share the less she will snoop.
  2. Make Technology Work for You - Did you know there's apps that tell you if there's an airtag in your car? Have you used LoveHerBetter alibi text messaging service? Make technology work for you to make your life easier. You no longer have to do it on your own.
  3. Plan indiscretions to the Smallest Detail - Women are naturals at paying attention to the smallest details that men overlook or don't think are important. To get away clean you have to change that mindset. When meeting up with a side piece, you have to have everything covered from the story you tell your wife, to ensuring the night out won't show up on your credit card bill next month. It's not just the one night you have to plan for. You have to ensure it won't come back to ruin your relationship down the line.
  4. Schedule an Alibi - When you're with your side piece, you always need to ensure you have an alibi. This can be a friend that will vouch for your whereabouts, text messages corroborating your story, or text messages sent on your behalf to give your partner piece of mind. Pro tip - use the loveherbetter alibi feature to help ensure your night goes off without a hitch.
  5. Know When You've Won - I 've seen too many high value men get greedy. Enjoy an evening out saying they will be home by 12 and still be out when the sun comes up. This is a mistake. The short term win is not worth a lifetime paying for it. You can have both worlds with multiple nights with your side piece but you must do it keeping in mind your partner's non negotiables. Set realistic expectation of the night, the week the month. When you hit those milestones and are enjoying life, celebrate and take the win.

The key with the above is the How. How do you implement the 5 mindsets above to successfully get away with your indiscretions. The truth is you can't do it on your own. You may share phone info with your partner and forget to delete your incriminating photos. You might spend time with your side piece, get too drunk and forget to check in.

Men need help to enjoy relationship freedom while having peace of mind and protecting their partner's heart. LoveHerBetter is the first and best resource for individuals who know they will be with their partner for the long run but want to live as their true selves. We believe relationships last when both partners are fulfilled. Most resources are available to women to help catch their partner's cheat, leading to heartbreak and losing out on their forever partner. We give you the "how" in every situation. Need an alibi for a dating indiscretion. Use our Alibi texting services to give her security, so you can focus your attention on what makes you happy. LoveHerBetter, Do you respectfully.

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