5 ways Cheating Saves Relationships

Men have been conditioned to think cheating is the death of relationship. The truth is, not protecting your partner's heart is the the reason these relationships don't last. Relationships today are different from what your parents went through. From how to meet your partner, to the challenges you face while in a relationship, the old way of doing things won't keep both people happy. High value men deserve to be able to cheat. Counter to popular beliefs this can save a relationship. This article focuses on the 5 ways cheating can help a relationship last in today's dating world.

High value men have more options than ever before and now have easier access to a higher volume of women. It's not practical to think these men won't be tempted to cheat in their relationship. The mistake partners make is thinking because men cheat, they love their partner less. The fact is high value men know they've found a good woman they want to be with forever. It's the reason they fight so hard to keep indiscretions from coming to light. They are in an internal struggle of making their partner happy while having natural desires to explore connections with other women.

The results are a constant internal battle around how they should act on a day to day basis. Social media tells you, you're supposed to build attraction with as many girls as possible and how easy it is. Family and friends confuse things more with some saying monogamy is the only way to go while others are able to balance family life and fulfill their needs while being with other women.

I've worked with high value men where monogamy does not work for them. For the ones that focused on protecting their partner's heart, they were able to maintain happiness in their relationship while enjoying relationship freedom. From working with them there are 5 distinct relationship advantages that comes from indiscretions.

1. Makes a man appreciate the woman he has at home - Men tend to romanticize the women outside of their relationship, by applying perceived qualities to gaps their current partner has. Talking to other women and discovering their flaws, will bring reality to his perception and lead him to know nothing is perfect and there's reason his current partner is his perfect match.
2. No FOMO - High value men do not want to miss out on life and relationship restrictions lead to bitterness. Men who attend events that are important to them will appreciate their partner's flexibility and ultimately choose them in the end.
3. A man will strive to be the best version of himself - While having relationship freedom, a man will not be complacent. He will look to improve all areas in his life. He will be more likely to dress better, increase his income, and self develop. Without relationship freedom he will be pushed to complacency.
4. It satisfies a man's primal desires - A man has a natural desire to hunt and to attract women. Talking to women and building the attraction releases endorphins lowering pain, stress and positively impacting a man's mood.
5. It eliminates bitterness towards the wife - A man's primary reason for not cheating is the impact it will have on his partner. Eventually the times a man turns down women and skip experiences leads to bitterness that will be directed towards his partner and ultimately severely damage the relationship

Although cheating can save relationships, high value men must ensure to put their partner's heart first. This means caring for their physical, emotional, financial and spiritual needs while protecting their partner's heart from relationship indiscretions. LoveHerBetter, Do You Respectfully