Avoid Being Caught Cheating ... Scenarios 6 through 10

In my prior article I walked through 5 not so known ways men get caught cheating and how to avoid these pitfalls, this article focuses on 6 through 10. Life is about timing, and too often high value men meet their perfect partner too early in life, when they are still discovering themselves. It's very possible they have met the person they are supposed to be with but are not given the relationship flexibility to come to that realization because woman now have an advantage they've never had before. There's countless resources women have today, to catch their partner including tracking devices, private investigators, and even hiring other people to tempt their man which creates an unnatural dating structure. Until now, that scale has never been balanced.

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6. Text messages and apps - Women catching their partner cheating by going through their phone is common. The lessor known nugget is how high value men should act around their phone to not tip their partner off to their indiscretions. If she sees you protective over your phone, she will try to dig more. If your "aunt" calls you late on Saturdays she's going to make sure she gets access to your cell phone to see what your "aunt" has also been texting you.

Love Her Better: The obvious answer that can not be over stated is to set the expectation with your partner that she needs to respect boundaries. This is not as hard as you think and we have a succinct script that will work for you. If your partner already has access to your phone, or you've previously been caught cheating and her access is a condition of you all staying together, don't worry, you still have options. Use Telegram or Whatsapp which allow you to archive or set passwords for specific conversations. Turn off notifications for these specific apps. Once you do, intentionally use your phone in front of your partner so she feels secure. The more secure she feels the less questions she will ask.

7. Waze /Uber navigation history - Partners checking navigation history is a lesser known way of women catching their man cheating. The history features on these apps lets women know where their man has been recently and even weeks before.

Love Her Better: You MUST tie up loose ends after EVERY indiscretion or you WILL lose her. To think she will not go to extremes to find out what you have done, would be a huge mistake. To clear your setting in Waze tap Settings --> Privacy --> Navigation history --> "Delete All". If this is your app of choice do this every time you meet with your side piece. Leave nothing to chance.

8. Not transferring txts and pictures to hidden folders

Love Her Better: All high value men should have a password encrypted secure folder on your phone. If you don't have one, create one immediately. I-Phones and Androids both have this. With the secure folder you can rename the app to anything of your choice, once you do, you won't have to worry about your partner easily stumbling across the folder. Use a word or phrase that you will recognize but one that to others sound inconspicuous. Examples can be workouts, quick notes, apple account etc.

9. Access to bank statements - Many couples share bank account information which can make it difficult for high value men to maintain some independence and privacy

Love Her Better: Go paperless with everything. Even with going paperless there is a significant risk your partner may stumble onto an account, bank statement, or even a receipt that tips your partner off. It's always a good idea to keep cash or use cashapp. Keep it simple, you have countless apps and platforms to use, use one your partner doesn't know about and password protect it!

10. Permanently deleting txts - Has your partner ever said "If you're not cheating, then give me your phone"? Men often hand over their phone with confidence knowing they've deleted incriminating text messages. Unfortunately there's a feature you can't overlook which allows someone to recover recently deleted text messages.

Love Her Better: I can't stress this enough. Set boundaries with your partner so she does not feel comfortable asking to cross your personal boundaries. Make her feel secure with your actions without coming off as defensive. If you get to the point where she is demanding your phone there were hundreds of earlier missteps that lead you to that point. To clear recently deleted texts, on an i phone tap filters in the upper left corner and tap recently deleted. From this screen you can permanently delete messages.

The truth is high value men deserve relationship freedom and their partners deserve to feel secure, have their needs taken care of and to be happy. Relationships are different today and traditional steps don't work for everyone. Men realize this fact but make the mistake of thinking they can do this alone and hide their indiscretions or don't think the consequences are severe enough not to take the chance. In fact, 85% of couples break up after finding out about infidelities. The stakes are too high to risk your relationship by learning as you go. Remember, people are happiest when being their true selves while protecting their partner's hearts. Do you, Respectfully.