the Dead Zone
highlights the common pitfalls men face when living out there true selves. We give the common ways men go wrong and the ways to protect your partner's heart. Some information is intentionally taken out for obvious reasons. Subscribe to get full access to ways you can avoid having your indiscretions come to light, full access to our video collection, access to our insights and publications and more
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| Source | Zone | How Men Go Wrong | How to Love her Better |
|---|---|---|---|
| Phone | Photos / Videos | saving physical photos as momentos (scrap books, special photos, gifts) | Delete, Delete, Delete...delete everything!!! Say thank you, then throw those gifts away! I say that and people won't listen so If you absolutely must keep that picture, video, or email here's what you do Subscribe to see more... |
| Phone | Texts | Txting through default applications; not using applications that help you lover her better | Send audio messages when the text is incriminating instead of texts, so it can't be screen shot. Use applications such as Subscribe to see more... and whatsapp. Therefore when your partner asks you to show texts, you can happily show her your phones default text messaging application without any fear of her seeing incriminating messages. |
| Phone | Cell phone bills (paper or electronic) | Men often use one cell phone instead of investing in a second cell phone to love her better | Invest in a second cell phone. If your wife/partner has access to your phone accounts, get a prepaid phone through a separate phone carrier and opt for paperless billing. |
| Phone | Phone Settings | Using default phone settings that give red flags to your partner - receiving late night phone calls - receiving text messages at awkward times - Receiving notifications from dating applications | If you think you know how valuable this is, you have no idea! Subscribe to see more... Use this Feature Today. |
| Phone | Passwords | Single sign on passwords (single sign on allows a user to sign in on multiple platforms by just signing in once). saving passwords in obvious places | Change your password every three months! The problem with single sign on is if one account is hacked, it's an easy way for your parnter to gain access to multiple accounts. Imagine someone has your facebook passwork but they can access your instagram and Threads accounts NEVER have a single sign on for social media, email. When prompted to save password choose NO Use 2 step authenticator - Simply put this means someone cannot log onto your account with the password alone. A lot of time the 2nd factor requires confirmation sent directly from the users phone. I can't stress this enough. USE THIS |
| Social Media | Instagram/Facebook/Snapchat/X | Giving attention to other women - Posting incriminating pictures and stories - Allowing friends to post incriminating pictures of you | It's Simple! Don't like pictures that will raise red flags to your girl. Under ANY CIRCUMSTANCE!!! Platforms have features perfectly designed to hide your extracurricular activities. Use them - Vanish mode on instagram:messages disappear after the recipient reads them - Do NOT use single sign on : why allow your part one path to access everything. Mix up passwords change them regularly Create burner accounts Don't let friends post incriminating pictures. Be clear with them. If it's questionable, then there's no question. Read that again! |
| Social Media | Dating apps (bumble, tinder, Hinge etc) | Making your account to accessible to your partner and her friends Responding to DMs (messages) from fake accounts | Go the extra mile and pay for the subscription it's worth it. You can control who can see your profile and you can pick your own search location. This is invaluable in lowering the probability your partner or someone your knows accidentally stumbles across your page If it looks too good to be true it probably is - Be skeptical of women reaching out to you first. It's not worth the risk. Don't respond to the messages. Subscribe to see more... |
| personal | Saving those sweet messages, pictures and notes from your mistress/side piece | This one is simple...delete everything!!! Sounds easy but this is where countless men go wrong. Reduce the amount of bread crumbs as much as possible. Even when I say this I know there are people that won't listen. So if you ABSOLUTELY must keep that picture, video, or email here's what you do. Subscribe to see more... | |
| Work email | Communicating with your mistress/side piece through your work email | Your mistress/side piece should know as little information about where you work, live or where you spend your free time AS POSSIBLE. Information is king and the more information your mistress/side piece knows the more leverage she will have over you. Too many times men can not cleanly break off relationships in fear of retaliation from their mistress/side piece. Don't let this happen to you | |
| Tracking Devices | Apps (ie Life360) | Doesn't think his partner will check the app at the times of infidelity Doesn't realize the tracking app is on his phone | First and foremost. You should know all apps on your phone. If you don't know an app, DELETE IT!! What if you and your partner agreed to have the app on your phone: Here's what you do: Subscribe to see more... |
| Tracking Devices | Physical tracker (ie optimums) | Agreed with partner to have a physical device to track location (ie optimus tracker) | Subscribe to see more... |
| Tracking Devices | Airtag | Doesn't realize the air tag is in their car or on their person | Subscribe to see more...Subscribe to see more... |
| Private Investigators | Girlfriend | A common mistake men make is to lie about where they will be and assume their girlfriend will not investigate to find out | Always assume your girlfriend is going to do some investigating to find out where you are Your need to PLAN AHEAD. Use our services and talk to one of our experts who will help you tailor a plan for your situation. Alone you will fail but our experts will help you build a credible story that will lower suspicions. |
| Private Investigators | Professionals | Men often assume their partner will never hire a professional to follow them or catch them treating. | ALWAYS be aware and on the lookout for people that may be following you If you think you are being followed, take time to change your routes before you get to your destination. ALWAYS circle the location of your destination to determine if anyone is following Limit your appearances with your mistress in public places Close blinds and shades, so that there is a low possibility of incriminating photographs |
| Paperless trail | Credit card statement | men often have account statements sent directly to their home and also keep the same account password for years | Paperless, Paperless, paperless. Limit the trail by having all of your accounts go paperless. With this, credit card companies will not send statements to your residence limiting your paper trails |
| Paperless trail | Search History | Leave an audit trail of plans with girls, or search history that leaves incriminating evidence | clear out browsing history on your computer Computers have incognito mode. Incognito mode: - deletes browser history - prevents some online tracking - protects sensitive personal data |
| Video Evidence | Outside cameras (ring doorbell) | Ring doorbell and home security systems can give 24/7 coverage of who comes in and out of the house, including giving information of when you leave and who you bring into your home Most men don't know their wives can connect the ring connection to other ring devices in the neighborhood. Therefore getting a false sense of comfort | Ring and cameras can be one of your girlfriends most relied on resource to catch you cheating. Here's what you need to know: First, if you are going to spend time with your mistress, avoid doing so in your home. Your mistress can intentionally or unintentionally leave evidence in your home. But if you have to here's what you need to do Subscribe to see more... |
| Women's intuition | Changes in routine schedule | Men have subtle changes in behaviour when they are not focused on their wife/girlfriend. These subtle changes in behaviour are big RED FLAGS. A lot of men display the following which gives RED FLAGS to their girlfriend/wife - emotionally distant - short tempered - physically detached - Lack of affection - sudden changes in schedule | Make your girlfriend/wife feel like she's the only woman in the world Give your girlfriend/wife extra attention buy flowers, spoil her, give gifts Take your girlfriend on vacation and put her first Love her better |
| Women's intuition | Unavailability | half baked stories about whereabouts | PLAN AHEAD. Use our services and talk to one of our experts who will help you tailor a plan for your situation. Alone you will fail but our experts will help you build a credible story that will lower suspicions |
| Physical Evidence | Marks on your body | hickies | Here's what you need to know. There are several ways for hicks to be removed Subscribe to see more... |
| New Technology | Artificial Intelligence | Men believing AI produced videos to the point they incriminate themselves and admit their infidelities | Artificial intelligence has made huge strides recently and it can be used to impersonate real people. Just ask R&B star Cardi B whose husband was made to look like he cheated using AI technology. Unfortunately wives/girlfriends can use this technology to impersonate your friends, family, coworkers to trick you into confessing events that may hurt her. Here's what you need to know: Subscribe to see more... |
| What to do when she confronts you | When she questions you about alleged cheating | Most men come off as defensive, this raises red flags to women. A lot of times they mistakenly do the following: - Give Inconsistent stories of past event; when recalling the story there's a lot of stuttering - Men may respond in a defensive way - React by yelling at your girlfriend, thinking this will make your partner stop asking questions. This is a mistake and is a terrible tactic - Play the reverse card: placing blame on the girlfriend by accusing them of cheating themselves or making it into their fault. This is also a mistake and will not work | You are not equipped to handle this alone. if you are in a situation when your girlfriend/wife confronts you about alleged cheating use our experts to help protect her heart. Remember remain calm, give eye contact, don't stutter. You can do this and we can help |
| What to do when she confronts you | When she catches you with your mistress side piece | Many men make the mistake of not being more transparent with their side pieces that leads to your side piece and main girl working together to bring you down - working together to get you caught up - leaving you with no one - embarrassing you in a public place - making your life incredibly difficult going forward - leading to both of them leaving you | Tell your side piece your intentions early on in your relationship. A lot of men make the mistake thinking the only way their side piece will stay around is if they think there's a long term future. That's 100% not a good way of thinking. Women admit they will choose a man that cheats over a man that doesn't provide for their security. What does that mean? Show her your value, level up and prove why you're worth it. By doing it there's a lot less stress and a much lower likelihood that she'll do anything vindictive |
| What to do when she confronts you | When she has video evidence | A lot of men just capitulate when their girl provides evidence of infidelity | This doesn't have to be a death sentence for the relationship. It doesn't have to be and here's how. She needs to know..Subscribe to see more... |