Catch a Cheater - How About How to Avoid Being Caught

There's unlimited ways to catch a cheater, but how can you Avoid being Caught? The fact is, being caught leads to divorce, heart ache, and loneliness. So as a High Value Man, is it possible to have your cake and eat it too?

In the age of technology the scales have been severely tipped against your favor through tracking devices, accessing your phone without your knowledge, and even websites dedicated to catching cheaters.

Take Kevin, a 33 year old retired basketball player, who lost everything after returning from a Las Vegas boys trip, to his long time girlfriend and mother of his 3 year old daughter. With only 4 hours of sleep across the weekend he couldn't muster up the energy and excitement to ease his girlfriend's insecurities after being away.

While Kevin slept, his girlfriend's Demons grew louder, echoing the same words her best friends spoke while Kevin was away. "I can't believe you let him go. All men cheat, and he's no exception". Once he was in a deep sleep, she let those intrusive thoughts consume her, and grabbed his phone. Pictures of him with friends with a group of girls outside of the Bellagio. Who were these people? Maybe friends of friends. Now to the DMs. Messages with Carrie. Heart racing she saw her fears turn to to reality, "it was so good to meet you tonight". She tried to rationalize the messages thinking it could have been for business. As the messages dragged on the stakes got higher. Your lips are tempting...I love your body, I can't wait to be next to you, I don't want to leave you, you taste amazing. The tears started to roll down her face. Capped off by a series of picture exchanges, the girl in lingerie barely leaving anything to the imagination and him in boxers returning the favor pic for pic. Her man, and the father of her child cheated and there was no doubt about it. "Kevin! How could you do this to me? Who is Carrie? Your swore you would never cheat on me"!

Here's the truth, you may think texts, pictures, and mementos of your indiscretions let you relive fun moments, brag to friends, or even pick you up when you're having a bad day. Delete, delete, delete. After trips, scrub through your phone deleting txts, pictures, and social media. Have the conversation with your boys you will travel with and tell them not to post pics of you at all. Failure, will, (not "might"), result in years of pain, both hers and yours.

I'm Marcus Rodgers and I'm dedicated to helping deserving men achieve relationship freedom. Here's the honest truth, getting caught is actually more detrimental to a relationship, a family, and to society than encouraging men to focus on protecting their partner's hearts. Yes - I actually want people to be happy in their relationship and yes it is possible. As part of my research, I came across an article encouraging and teaching women how to spy on their partner. In this post I will focus on the first 5 strategies, and tell you the ways to avoid being caught. Subscribe to get full access.

1. Women watch how you behave with your phone - they sense when you are protective of your phone, when you desperately try to keep it out of sight, or even put your phone on do not disturb.

Love her Better: The key is to make her feel comfortable so Don't give off the energy that you're hiding something. Use alternative apps like Telegram which makes it easier to control notifications and is not an app she will likely check your phone for. With Telegram and Whatsapp you can set passwords to specific conversations so even if your partner checks the app you won't be exposed. Second, your phone settings are your friend! Most people don't know you can set your phone to not receive calls or messages during specific times. Tailor it to only receive calls from specific people. One of the other great advantages of Telegram is you can adjust settings to not allow screenshots! Take advantage now! You can't afford not to.

2. Touch ID - One technique your girl may use is to put her finger print in your phone or to add an app without you knowing it's there

Love her Better: Go through your phone RIGHT NOW, delete apps you don't recognize, and change your pin. Periodically do this again, at least every 3 months. Seems like more work than it's worth? Imagine the stress of being caught. You may think trying to blame her will work. Let me know how that works for you. Alternatively you can do it my way and always be prepared. If you're a deep sleeper, remove biometrics (ie fingerprints) as a way to access your devices. That's the obvious part. Here's the next level. If you're in a new relationship or been in a relationship for 10 years, you need to set boundaries. If you set them properly she will respect them. There is no relationship where a woman needs to feel comfortable taking your phone and searching your apps or text messages. A simple way to make sure this doesn't happen. Say, "One major reason I broke up with my ex is she used to constantly go through my phone". She won't want to be seen in the same light as your ex. Watch how her actions change after you say it. It's a good way to have her self reflect without coming off defensive.

3. Password hack - Imagine ensuring your phone is secure only to find out your girl has accessed your passwords to your email, social media account, or cell phone provider without touching your phone. Women will use the trick of asking for your computer password and while on your computer, she will go to "settings", then "Passwords" and finally "autofill". If this happens she will have access to everything and your life will never be the same.

Love her Better: Never link passwords. Not only do most people use the same passwords across multiple platforms making it easy to guess, single sign on for Facebook allows someone to sign into your Instagram without even having your Instagram password. It's worth saying again, NO SINGLE SIGN ON and change your password every 3 months. There is no reason why you need to share your computer password. Even a Netflix password is off limits.

4. Keyloggers - software can be installed on your computer, and the cheating person using it would never know it's running in the background. These programs can record whatever you want, see the passwords they use, the emails they send, the pages they visit and even record.

Love her Better: First if you catch your girl installing a program on your computer without your permission, you have an obligation to break up. She does not respect you or your space, and her actions just lost her a good man that provides for her. You need to know ALL apps on your phone or computer. General rule is every 3 months. Delete all apps on your phone that you don't know.

5. Look at Location history - You can track your partner’s location history if they use Google by clicking on ‘previous destinations’ menu option on the navigation system if you've been given access to it. Alternately, for Android users the Google Timeline feature tracks similarly in the Google Maps app or even Google Maps online,

Love her better: On your computer press "Ctrl" + "H" and select "Delete Browsing data"

On your phone make sure to navigate to the google maps app and ensure your "Timeline is Off" is selected in your settings. Do not leave anything to chance. If you are not immaculate, she will catch you and your relationship will Never be the same.

Avoid Getting Caught

Being caught cheating is a scary thing, make sure it never happens to you. Our Next article will surgically dissect the next 5 ways men get caught. Remember, you deserve relationship freedom, but you have a responsibility to protect her heart. Subscribe and get on the road to living relationship stress free.