Don't Get Caught Cheating. Do These 3 Things

It's a fact, 85% of couples break up after finding out about a partner's infidelities. It's a relationship death sentence that can't be left to chance. Men often get caught cheating by not paying attention to the details, which they interpret as having bad luck. Trying to learn as you go and do it on your own in a society with new technology to catch men cheating is a quick way for a high value man to end up alone, embarrassed and heartbroken. If you've cheated before and tried to hide your indiscretions you'll know things never go as planned however if you do these 3 things, you'll drastically reduce the odds of being caught.

1. Anticipate that she will call you at unexpected times

Typically when you plan to spend time with your mistress you have a general sense of when your partner will call or when you are expected to check in. Although you may have a general sense of what this schedule is, she will call at times that you don't expect especially when she suspects you of being with someone else. Use the txt message scheduler on your phone to send messages to your partner so you don't have to remember to do it yourself. You're likely to forget to send messages when your mind is occupied with other things. Send txt messages like "I love you and can't wait to get home" every few hours. Doing this simple task, will give her peace of mind and make her feel more secure.

2. Perform the clean up before coming home

Spending time with your mistress/side piece leaves a trail of evidence that can get you caught through the smallest detail. Before coming home from the work trip, road trip, or from working late, you must:

1. Permanently delete incriminating text messages, Instagram DMs, and messages with your mistress on any platform
2. Delete all pictures or videos that you and your side piece took together to remember the moment. The amount of times that you will go back to your phone to relive the moment will not be worth the risk that your partner finds the pic/video and ends the relationship
3. Send the final text to your side piece for the night - if you've set up the expectation that you'll send a good night text to your side piece, take care of that before getting back to the house. Wish her good night, tell her you had fun and that you'll talk to her later. If you're worried about her texting while you're back home, block her number until the morning. Getting a late night text is not worth the risk
4. Play out the night in your head - Take 10 minutes before getting back home to replay the night. Did you keep a receipt in your pocket from drinks, is there a stamp or wrist band still on your hand from the venue you were at, did the parking attendant put a parking receipt in your car, did she sit in your car in which case you need to check her side for any left make up, lipstick, hair ties etc...

3. Solidify your Alibi

You should always have an alibi for your indiscretions. Whether that's a friend that can vouch you were with them or doing something as easy as using LoveHerBetter's Alibi services to handle it for you, it's important that if things don't go to plan, you can use your alibi to make her feel secure.

High value men are typically good at doing 1 of the 3 must do's above but fail at covering all 3. They may answer the phone and provide emotional security when their partner calls, but forget to make sure they don't get a late night text. To enjoy relationship freedom, a high value man must do All 3 Must Do's for each relationship indiscretion. Remember it only take one missed detail to lead to heartbreak, loneliness and bankruptcy.

My LoveHerBetter client Jeff knew he was going for a night out with his mistress and her friends. I worked with him to plan ahead. At the end of planning, I sent him a checklist that he was required to check at the end of the night before going back home. He cleared out his phone (txts, pictures, stories, and DMs). He put his wedding ring back on before going in the house, and he scheduled text messages throughout the night. When he got home he noticed his wife was uneasy. He offered to let her go through his phone under the conditions that if she didn't find anything then she would have to give him the benefit of the doubt and second, this was a one time allowance only to let her go through his phone. Once she went through the phone and didn't find anything, she thanked him for not being defensive and for giving her peace of mind.

LoveHerBetter sets men up for success by providing the tools needed to protect your partner's heart. Men try to hide indiscretions on their own leading to heartbreak and divorce. LoveHerBetter helps men achieve lasting relationships and enjoy peace of mind while keeping your partner secure. Do You, Respectfully.