High Value Men Must Avoid These 4 Cell phone Cheating Tells

High value men, deserve the freedom to act on their sexual and emotional connections with someone other than their partner, so long as they ensure their partner does not discover their indiscretions. Unfortunately although men will take steps to discreetly indulge in a connection with a side piece, they often don't put in the work to make sure their partner has peace of mind.

Jack is a long time client of mine. Before I took him on as a client, Jack would tell me stories of how he was plagued by bad timing and coincidences that wouldn't be believable in a movie. There was one story that stood out to me in particular. After spending the day with his side piece, he was exhausted and went straight to bed, but before he did he remembered to erase all of his messages. In the morning he woke up to the loud noise of a garbage truck which reminded him, he forgot to put the trash on the street. While he took out the trash, his phone alarm went off. His wife innocently reached for his phone to turn off the alarm only to see notification of messages with another woman. She read the messages and even went to the recently deleted messages, seeing pics, videos and messages of Jack's indiscretions.

To Jack, this was a series of unfortunate random events, that could have been avoided if one thing in the chain would have gone differently. If he would have taken out the trash the night before, or if he had taken his phone with him while taking out the trash, in his mind none of this would have happened. In my mind, his obvious sloppiness along multiple points, is the result of hundreds of breakdowns in his thought process. When I heard his story, I didn't think of how close he was to not being caught but rather why didn't she catch him sooner.

High value men not having the right process and steps around guarding the incriminating information in their phone is one of the most common ways they get caught cheating. They are intelligent and successful because of their stubborn unwillingness to give up. Their super power of betting on themselves turns into their weakness as they try to hide their indiscretions on their own. With relationships, you don't often get a 2nd chance. Men must exhaust all their resources to minimize any chance of losing the person they are meant to be with.

Below are the top cell phone related cheating tells high value men unknowingly signal to their partner that will lead them to losing everything.

1. Communicating with side pieces through your normal txt messengers - Using standard txt messengers is the reason men get uncomfortable when their partner is around their phone. Your partner will pick up on your phone anxiety and will lead her to want to dig more. Use applications such as Telegram and Whatsapp to communicate, always ensuring to use settings that have a self destruct feature so you don't leave evidence behind.
2. Reading and reacting to txt messages in front of your partner - Just because she can't see the txt message as you type, doesn't mean she doesn't know you're txting a side piece. A subtle smile is enough to betray who is on the other side of the text. As a general rule, don't check or read texts from your side piece while she is in the room. Remember the rule #1 as a high value man is you must protect her heart, and giving off this subtle tell will amplify her anxiety.
3. Using single sign on for Instagram, Facebook, and email - Imagine remembering to change your Instagram password so your partner can't read your messages, only to discover she gains access no matter how many times you update it. Never use single sign on because if she gets access to one she can get access to all. Passwords should be separate, different, and never linked. She is a woman and will snoop, don't make it easier for her to get access to everything.
4. Not permanently deleting messages, pictures, and videos from the cloud - Even if a video, txt message or email is deleted on your phone, it is not always permanently deleted and therefore can be recovered. On i-phones in your txt messages, navigate to recently deleted. Tap filters on the top left corner, then tap recently deleted, select the conversations you want to delete, tap delete.

Permanently delete pictures, messages, and videos from your google drive. On your phone navigate to google drive and select storage manager. Under the "clean up suggested items" select and delete incriminating photos, videos, and emails

Any one of these cheating tells can lead to the end of your relationship leaving you lonely, losing valuable money and time on a relationship that will not be saved. At Love Her Better we help men enjoy the relationship freedom they deserve. I focused this article on 4 cell phone cheating tells, but there's countless more that men fall victim to. My dedicated team, will help you you stay on the path of enjoying your peace of mind while in a relationship by addressing the details you don't have time for and are impossible to know on your own. You found your forever love, don't risk that relationship just because you met her too early in life. Love her Better, Do you Respectfully.