Stop Getting Caught Texting "Spam" At 3 am!

Men are going to cheat but have the responsibility to do it in a way that shields their partner's heart from their indiscretions. Men who try to do this on their own often leave obvious signs of cheating that are so blatant it's a wonder their partner didn't catch them before.

Typically men with no experience simply change the name of their side piece in their phone to something like "Spam" thinking they will be able to freely text without causing suspicion with their partner.

In fact, it's the opposite! Wives will see text messages at odd hours, from contacts that don't make sense.

Why is Spam texting at 3 am? Why is your aunt texting you, "I miss you"? What you think are responsible ways to cheat discreetly are the biggest red flags that your partner will pick up on.

So what happens after these red flags? Your Peace of Mind is completely taken away. She will extensively look or signs of cheating. She will ask more questions, ask her friends if they are indeed signs of cheating, and take matters into her own hands like hiring a private investigator or following you herself.

The results of all of this are a friction in your relationship to the point you will want to have more an more distance. Neither of you will be happy and your peace of mind will be destroyed.

One of my clients, John, was in a committed long term relationship with a girl he met from college. He knew his girlfriend was the one that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with but he was young and also didn't want to waste his youth. John was reckless. He would tell his girlfriend he would be gone for an hour, go to a bar and come back in the early morning. He changed the names of the side pieces in his phone and text them throughout the night. His mentality was, if she can't prove he was cheating then she had no choice but to take his word for it. His girlfriend quickly caught on, put a tracking device in his car, and caught John in the act.

John never ended up marrying his girlfriend. They broke up and he spent 4 yrs being single. He's now in a relationship but knows he missed out on the person he was supposed to marry.

Most common ways women catch their partner cheating are,

1. Text messages - ~40% of millennials have been caught cheating as a result of their partner going through their phone.
2. Woman's intuition - Signs of cheating lead to woman getting the feeling of infidelity. Contrary to men's popular belief, their feelings don't come out of nowhere. It's the accumulation of signals, red flags, and the man not paying enough attention to details.
3. Someone tells your partner that you're cheating
4. Leaving evidence that you were not in the place that you said you were going to be
5. Witnessing the indiscretions first hand - Usually the result of a combination of the factors above, some women won't believe their man is cheating until they see it for themselves. Typically after getting a hunch, it doesn't take long for them to lose trust and find ways to see first hand that their partner is with another woman.

The big mistake men make, is not using all of the resources available to them to hide their indiscretions. At LoveHerBetter we provide high value men the tools needed to have relationship freedom and not make common relationship mistakes. There is nothing more valuable than your peace of mind . Whether you need an alibi for your cheating indiscretions, to clean up your social media, or you've been caught and need ways to ensure to get out of it, our team will take care of the details so you can rest easy. We believe relationships last when both partners are happy and living their true selves. Men should provide security to women in all aspects of the relationship and still enjoy their freedom. LoverHerBetter, Do you respectfully.