The 3 Must Do's When Being Accused of Cheating

All high value men have been suspected of cheating at some point in their relationship. There's a specific type of anxious feeling that comes with being accused. Shortness of breath, your voice cracking as you fumble through your story, and the strong feeling of uncertainty not knowing if she's going to buy it.

Time seems to slow down in that moment, as you try to strategize a plan of attack and appear confident while trying to piece together what information she knows and how she knows it.

This article will focus on the 3 must do's for any high value man in the moment that they have been accused. If you follow these steps you give yourself a chance to keep your relationship and protect your partner's heart. Failing to do any one of the 3 steps will lead to heartbreak, and will cost you everything.

One of my clients became a client because he was tired of being caught in his indiscretions. He loved his wife and wanted to give her the life she was looking for and deserved but also wanted to explore connections with other women. When he expressed his feelings up to his wife, telling her he was conflicted, she shamed him and judged him for having those thoughts. He tried to suppress his feelings but eventually succumbed to his desires, and started dating another woman he met during a work happy hour. One night he told his wife he was going with friends to a concert when in actuality he went with his side piece to dinner and drinks at a rooftop lounge.

One of his wife's friends saw him and texted his wife to let her know. When he got home, she immediately accused him of being with another woman. When confronted he tried to switch his story. Needless to say, the story wasn't believable and she eventually got him to confess what really happened. They ended up staying together but he wasn't able to go out with friends without her, had to add an app to his phone to give her his location, and add her to all of his bank accounts so she knew what he spent money on. Did he really win in this relationship? Some people will say yes because he was able to keep his wife, but he did so at the cost of his happiness and his freedom.

My client failed when he switched his story after being accused of cheating. Unfortunately, this is the typical response high vale men have when when being confronted. They are not prepared for the questions and ultimately leave their partner feeling insecure.

When confronted, high value men must do these 3 things:

1. Stay cool, calm, and collected - Remain confident in your story and speak slowly. Being defensive is a trigger for woman and signals to them that you are not being truthful. Subconsciously they are looking for a reason to believe you. Project your voice, flash an occasional smile to show that you are not being defensive. Your calming energy will provide assurance to her that you are innocent.
2. Remember she has the burden of proof - she is the accuser, so she has the burden of proof. Ask what happened to make her think you would be unfaithful and let her provide all of the evidence and details that she has. If all she has is someone else's word, then all things considered, you're in good shape. Stick to your story! Someone else's word is hearsay and not enough to prove that you've done anything wrong. If she wants you to prove your whereabouts, you can always use the LoverHerBetter texting Alibi services to corroborate your whereabouts.
3. Control the situation - Offer to provide your phone to her to look through text messages, DMs, and pictures but do so saying it comes with a condition. If the messages don't show signs of cheating, it has to be enough for her to believe you. Second, it is a one time chance for her to get access to your phone. This doesn't mean she has the authority to go through it at anytime and invade your privacy. Stress that you're disappointed it would come to this but if this is what she needs, you're willing to do it for this time. You can do this with confidence since you've followed the LoveHerBetter playbook and have already cleaned up texts and DM's well before providing her access. If she can't agree to your conditions then don't give her access to your phone and tell her there's no point as she said it won't help anyway.

These 3 steps can and should be used anytime you as a high value man are accused of cheating. Looks at an example of how alibi services can work for you

This is just the surface and there are far more tactics and techniques to use depending on the type of evidence your partner has. Whether she has pictures, videos, txts or emails, LoveherBetter has the tools and resources you need to get out of any situation. These tactics are intended for men that want to protect their partner's heart by placing value on their partner's emotional, financial, and physical security. You deserve to be with your forever person while satisying your natural desires. LoveHerBetter, Do you respectfully.