The 3 Reasons High Value Men Get Caught Cheating

High value men are smart, successful, driven people that seem to always find a solution and just get it done. So why is it when it comes to cheating they fall short, get caught, and destroy their relationships?

A high value man provides physical, emotional, and financial security while providing for ALL of his partner's needs. No splitting checks, or asking what a woman brings to the table, a high value man ensures his woman is totally secure in all areas. If she asks for it, he will do what it takes to provide it. Some men commonly think they are high value based on their own physical appearance and possessions. A high level of attractiveness, does not mean high value.

High value men attract and select high quality women, build a solid relationship foundation, but can still make mistakes that get them caught cheating and cost them everything.

One of my clients, Chris, is the CFO of a Pharmaceutical company based in the bay area California. From the outside he had a perfect life. Married with 2 kids, no health issues, and living in a multi million dollar house. His wife was stay at home and Chris took care of all financial needs. It took one slip up to change everything. He left his phone in his bedroom to charge while he took an early morning work call. His wife happened to look at his phone when she checked how much time she had until she needed to get the kids out of the house for school. The timing was unfortunate as she saw the "I miss you baby" text from his mistress. She immediately confronted Chris, yelling, crying and demanding answers, all in front of their 2 kids. Chris panicked trying to convince his wife his mistress didn't mean anything. He ended up losing his relationship, his kids and eventually his job.

Through my time working with high value men, there are 3 common reasons High value men get caught cheating.

1. Cleaning up the details of an indiscretion is not a one time job - If you are successful in planning infidelity and also executing the plan without being caught, the job is not done. Your story about your whereabouts need to stay consistent, and new information like videos/messages/pics can still lead you to divorce if your partner see them (do not keep videos/pics to remember the night on your phone). Men often don't do the consistent necessary follow up to make sure their indiscretion never comes back to haunt their relationship.
2. Men have a "What are the odds of getting caught mentality" - Men make the mistake of taking unnecessary chances thinking there's a low possibility of getting caught cheating. If you risk doing an indiscretion and at any point of your planning you justify an action by saying "what are the odds" it means you haven't planned enough.
3. You give her a reason to doubt, you've provided her reasons to dig - Just like you're putting a lot of effort in assuring you're not caught cheating, if a woman has doubts, she will put in just as much or even more effort to find clues of infidelity. To cheat successfully, you have to go above and beyond to give your partner the relationship security that shes looking for. Scheduled text messages telling her you love her or just about how the night is going. Not doing so, is a common area men fail, ultimately leading their partners to look for proof of infidelity.

The truth is, as a high value man, you can't afford to do this on your own. Technology, social media, and resources are designed to catch you in your indiscretions. Love her Better is specifically designed to help men live their true selves while still protecting their partner's heart. We've seen the ways women catch men cheating and use our experiences, resources, and attention to details to help you enjoy a stress free relationship.