To Avoid Being Caught Cheating You MUST Have This Mindset

It's a fact, 45% of unmarried people cheat, 23% of men who are married cheat, and 20% of breakups are the direct result of an affair. There will always be men that cheat, so why is it some men get caught and others don't?

Are some men just lucky, or is there a secret formula? From my experience I've found high value men who don't get caught cheating have 3 common mindsets.

The 3 Mindsets every high value man must have

1. You Must be Able to Adapt - Enhancements to technology make it easier than ever for a woman to catch their partner cheating. Spy apps, tracking devices, and recording devices can all be used to uncover infidelity. To keep from getting caught cheating, you must adapt to the times. The old way of "deny till you Die" won't work and will leave you alone and bankrupt. The late night at the office excuse won't satisfy her mind and she will dig until she uncovers what you're really up to.

LoveHerBetter: It's impossible for a man to cheat for a prolonged duration by doing it on their own. It requires an unrelenting attention to detail. You must plan out indiscretions from start to finish and be able to have fallback plans because things won't go according to plan. Men make the mistake thinking "it won't happen to them" and end up losing the partner they were meant to spend the rest of their life with, by simply not putting in the necessary work to be successful.

2. Willingness to walk away from any situation - When cheating, there are factors that are beyond your control but warrant you walking away. For example, your side piece posts pictures on social media of the two of you together, or she tries to contact your wife in order to sabotage your relationship.

LoveHerBetter: You must have the mindset to walk away from any situation. Establish non negotiables with your side piece. Communicate your expectations to her. If those non negotiables are violated, or she doesn't agree to them, end the relationship with the side piece immediately! Your mistress will be in your life for a season. She is not worth ruining the relationship with your soul mate.

3. Take Care of Home First - Only high value men deserve to enjoy relationship freedom. This means ensuring your wife's emotional, physical and financial needs are taken care of. Your partner must feel secure in the relationship meaning you have a responsibility to protect her heart. Men often mistakenly think they can cheat without regard for how their partner feels. This leads to fights, resentment, and divorce.

LoveHerBetter: The ultimate goal and flex is enjoying relationship freedom as a high value man, while taking care of your wife's needs. This is possible by ensuring the person you will be with for the long run is secure. Urgent matters come up unexpectedly. If something comes up while you're out with your side piece, you must take care of what your wife needs.

One of my clients, Chris is married with no kids and indulges in indiscretions when he is out of town. For one of his work trips he invited his side piece to travel with so him and turn the trip into a vacation. Two days before the trip, someone broke his house window attempting to bulgarize. The alarm went off and the suspects fled but Chris cancelled his work trip because his wife was shaken up by the experience.

His wife's security was at stake and although his did not take the trip with his side piece he put priority on taking care of home first. His wife was grateful and he rescheduled the trip with his side piece to a later date. With the LoveHerbetter principles, Chris was able to maintain his relationship freedom.

If you're a high value man who is looking for relationship freedom but knows you can't do it on your own, use LoveHerBetter to handle the details so you don't have to. Services are anonymous and can lead you to the peace of mind high value men deserve. LoveHerBetter, Do You Respectfully.