What is Relationship Freedom... and Who Deserves It?

Relationship Freedom is the flexibility to act on sexual and emotional connections with someone other than our partner. Simply put, you make the choice of the type of connection you have with people outside of your relationship. Whether in a monogamous relationship or you practice polyamory, the variations of relationship boundaries depend on each partner. This article focuses on the people that deserve relationship freedom regardless of the type of relationship they are in.

So is it true, ALL Men deserve relationship freedom. Absolutely Not! The truth is most men don't. Relationship freedom is dependent on providing physical, emotional, and financial security while providing for ALL of their partner's needs. Unfortunately some men think they deserve relationship freedom without also providing the securities required.

Mark, one of my clients, recently told me a disappointing story that's unfortunately very common in the dating world. He approached an attractive woman at a festival, exchanged contact information but didn't know if this would be casual, turn into something serious or if it would end up in a friendship. He kept it simple by asking her on a date to get tacos and drinks after. He thought it would be smart to go to a place that had a casual atmosphere and not put any pressure on the date. To keep with that casual energy, when the bill came he asked "Do you want to split it"? When he told me the story I jumped in and said, she should have got up, LEFT YOU, and blocked your number. Funny enough, there was no second date.

Do men have to pay for the date every time? Should the man pay for most dates and every 4 dates then the woman pays? What if the woman invites the man out for a date? The right answer is the man should offer to pay for the date 100% of the time. If she is persistent on paying, enjoy the green flag, but her paying should happen on rare occasions.

A man that deserves relationship freedom also needs to provide physical security to his partner. She should never have a question in her mind on whether she is physically safe and if her man can take care of business when it comes down to it. His presence should leave no doubt that he is the man in the relationship and that he can and will handle any issues that arise.

Just as important as physical security, a man must also provide emotional security and take care of her sexual needs. If his partner is emotionally drained, fatigued or bothered, he has the responsibility to provide comfort. Often times men don't provide enough emotional security, which can arise when a man is cheating and doesn't protect his partner's heart. He just doesn't care enough! It is completely unacceptable for a man to allow himself to be caught with a side piece or mistress as his partner will be emotionally devastated. Men have the responsibility to ensure his indiscretions do not impact his partner's peace of mind and security. He can not allow himself to be caught!

High Value men that provide emotional and physical security, and provide for all of their partner's needs deserve relationship freedom if they protect their partner's hearts. The mistake men make. is trying to do this on their own. They are sloppy in their indiscretions leaving their partner with emotional insecurities. This will lead to humiliation, loneliness and to to losing everything. Traditional techniques of using a second cell phone, dating apps, or cheating out of town, just don't work. You will eventually get caught. We can help hide a high value man's indiscretions and keep his partner feeling secure. Whether you need txt messages to corroborate whereabouts or advice on how to keep an affair secret. We can help. Love her better, do you respectfully.